February and March have been very emotional for me. That may
be an oxymoron considering how emotional of a person I am, but it’s been more
emotional than usual. I learn something new almost every day and I don’t take
my encounters with life lightly, I never have, but I’ve been reminded of how
precious this life we are given is. It’s truly hit home that there are folks
that will leave this earth unhappy, never reaching their potential, never
recognizing their talents nor tapping into their purpose. I am blessed to
finally be on this path of enlightenment.
I have also recognized that a lot of us don’t recover from hurts and situations that shake us to our core. We all don’t overcome depression and hardships that we face. I think I’ve been a bit arrogant in this area. I assumed at some point that we all draw from the strength inside of us and push forward. I know whole heartedly that the strength I draw from is my Gods strength, Jesus Christ, and I know that He alone has kept me and sent angels along the way to help me. Everyone doesn’t have this relationship; everyone is not built with the same resilience to overcome and conquer the ills that plague us in this life. This has been completely recognized the past few weeks for me.
Last night I thumbed through a few of my old journals, and some of the things I read, all I could do was shake my head, but then I smiled and thanked God for how good He has been in my life. I was a screwed up young girl, for many reasons. I read a passage where I wrote about asking God to take my life for me. Yup, I couldn’t believe it either. And because He wouldn’t take my life, I was contemplating ways to do it myself. To God be the glory, I am still here, no longer battling the demons of my yester year. But, there are still challenges I face, and healing is ongoing, but you work towards it. I have to, giving up is not an option for me, especially when I have been blessed and tasked to raise two beautiful young ladies.
God has given me a certain level of compassion for people, a certain care and concern and it’s innately in me to give to others. This is why I pour out my soul, open and honestly, to a fault a lot of the times. But it’s for my continuous healing and more importantly, in hopes to heal another. I want to be remembered for my compassion, and the love that I share with others, that’s it. Some will remember me as other things, a heart breaker, unemotional, that B****, maybe even unforgiving and that’s cool, because I’ve been those things and much more, but I’ve asked for forgiveness and I’ve forgiven myself for an awful lot of things. But I say all of this to say, life happens to some of us, and more often than we think, it doesn’t work out for the good of everyone, and it’s been a humbling reality to absolutely accept this truth. So, show a little compassion from time to time, you never know where it may lead you. And reinforce your mind several times a day with scripture, positive messages and affirmations to combat negative thoughts, and find a mentor doing bigger and better than you. I read The Daily Motivator; I receive the Valerie Burton newsletter, the Bible, Acts of Faith and many others that motivate and inspire me. It all begins and ends with your thought process.
Peace and many blessings,
Shamina
from Who Will Cry for the Little Boy?
who will cry for the little boy?
Lost and all alone.
Who will cry for the little boy?
Abandoned without his own?
Who will cry for the little boy?
He cried himself to sleep.
Who will cry for the little boy?
He never had for keeps.
Who will cry for the little boy?
He walked the burning sand
Who will cry for the little boy?
The boy inside the man.
Who will cry for the little boy?
Who knows well hurt and pain
Who will cry for the little boy?
He died again and again.
Who will cry for the little boy?
A good boy he tried to be
Who will cry for the little boy?
Who cries inside of me
I commend you for sharing this truly soul-bearing post, Shamina. You almost know what you're gonna get when you read "Life Happens", cos it really DOES! I'll be transparent with you: I, too, am familiar with the "take me now" prayer. Yes, life can get so crazy, chaotic, and mentally draining - that you just want everything to stop! But can I say how grateful I am for UN-answered prayers!
ReplyDeleteHealing, overcoming, and learning our lessons take time and a whole lotta work...and if anyone thinks healing is hard - don't even let me talk about MAINTAINING the healing, whew!
But this is where we have to totally depend on the sufficiency of God's grace and love for us. There is no room for ego and "I got this on lock" when Life Happens. As I face another "happening" in my life right now, I'm pulling on the experiences from MY yester-year too, and trust that God has an ENCORE for me never imagined..cos I believe GOD HAPPENS :-).
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DeleteWell Shamina I thought Life Happens was very inspiring. It let people know that they have sooo much to live for, for we may let things get us down at times but we have to just pray about it and keep on truckin. Yet being a friend for thirty years, I know you have this great talent and soooo much to offer the world with it, so keep up the good work. Keep it comin!
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